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Do you want respect?

The Loving Series© Part Two Do you want respect? I remember repeatedly not feeling respected. I planned my day around meeting my friend,...

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Is your life hard?

It all seems so easy for successful people . They have it all going for them They are so lucky How do you become someone who succeeds?...

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What problem are you wishing away?

When I was a child I suddenly started to get stomach aches. Rather bad ones. I went from never having never missed a day of school to...

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Do You Want To Be Loved? Do You Want To Be Liked?

Do you want be loved? Do you want to be liked ? Who doesn’t! It’s one of our basic human needs. How does it happen? There are two types...

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Emotions are logical!

Give me a minute to explain if you will. When I was 11 - I felt self conscious. My school bus stop was at the end of the village - last...

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Do you have a routine. If so, why?

I have to say - I dislike routines. What's the point anyway? I was listening to a speaker and somebody asked him a question what are the...

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Reacting

I was reacting last week…. (to be fair - we all are, all the time) Last week a friend had misunderstood something I said and decided to...

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Your best is NOT good enough

Stop ‘doing your best’ Your best is NOT good enough : I have a friend - their mother always said : it’s ok, you’ve done your best. They...

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Positive energy

I was lacking in energy this weekend. It has been a full on week. I felt lucky that the sun was shining. I sat outside in my garden and...

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Are you trying to reinvent the wheel?

I tried playing golf for the first time last week. Interesting sport - completely different movements from any other sport I’ve done ....

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Seeing things another way

Seeing things another way

Seeing things another way

Here’s my dilemma and frustration . Dilemma is a mild version of what I feel. Frustration for sure - but let’s not go into that now ! A...

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Emotions and you

What is an emotion An emotion is a physiological state within your body. You experience this feeling in your physical body and react to...

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3 Benefits of Listening to hear

What is listening? Often people say they are a listener. People listen but are so busy thinking of what to say next that they don't...

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Coviditis

2020 is the year of Coviditis Do you have coviditis? An '-itis' is a disease and an inflammation. Yes - it's 2020 - and for most of you...

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How are you? Busy?

"How are you?" "I'm good thanks...busy..." Was this always the catch phrase? It seems that people relish this status. It's a good thing...

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Should I stay or should I go now?

How do we know which situation we are in: persistence or looking for choices (options that are available to you)? How often do we get the...

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The winding path

The winding path

The winding path

At my son's graduation the guest speaker was an ex graduate. He told of his winding path to success since graduating. His success was not...

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Are you fine?

Are you fine?

Are you fine?

We were supposed to be sharing and I shared that I was in a good place in my life. I used words like good, nice, fine...... Afterwards I...

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Are you stuck in life?............ Yes?

Are you stuck in life?............ Yes?

Are you stuck in life?............ Yes?

Have you considered that you are still acting as the 'victim'? The chances are that your answer to this question should also be yes. If...

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Waiting, waiting....why?

Waiting, waiting....why?

Waiting, waiting....why?

Why are we waiting? What do we gain? When we understand why waiting leads to a happier life what do about it?

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