Updated: Apr 25, 2021
Here’s my dilemma and frustration .
Dilemma is a mild version of what I feel. Frustration for sure - but let’s not go into that now !
A few years ago there was a major event at my house- see the photo
I enlisted engineers to secure both slips
They built a ‘retaining ‘ wall.
But it physically didn’t cover both slips. They keep ensuring me it’s to fix both but I just can’t see it.
I am so frustrated, that try as I might, I cannot see it their way . (I know they are the expert and I’d love to take their word for it) but I’d like to understand it.
We have had to refer to a third party because they can’t see it my way and I can’t see it their way. However hard I try!
The lesson is that everyone is different and we can all see things differently.
And sometimes we find it extremely hard to see it another way.
But believe me - there is another way.
Just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it exists .
So when someone puts another meaning on something - that truly is how they see it!!
Contact me if you want help setting things differently