Life Mentoring Articles

Are You Accidentally Telling Yourself What You Can’t Do? The way we talk to ourselves can have a bigger impact on our lives than we realise. Not because every thought magically creates our reality, but because what we say to ourselves influences what we notice, what we expect, the questions we ask, and the actions we take. And often, we don't even notice we're doing it. You might say: "I can't do that." "I don't know how." "Nothing ever works for me." "I don't want things to

It’s almost never actually about the dishes. It’s rarely just about the sleep. And the stress isn't always about the work. Our minds are brilliant at creating believable stories about why we feel the way we do and then convincing us to waste all our energy solving the wrong thing. In When Fixing Becomes the Problem, I share why surface-level solutions keep failing us, and the surprising shift that actually brings real relief.

Many parents are using punishments. Often taking things away from the child. This is a parent attempt at control and is not the best parenting. Natural consequences are better, however parents often try to created natural consequences and they become punishment administered by the parent. This affects both the child’s learning and the parent child bond. This article is about what you can do instead.

Why choices can be wrong in parenting and what to do instead.

When one child picks on another child. You’ve tried everything. Nothing works What do we do to get on top of it. This article explains it.

How to stop yourself reacting and over reacting.

You’re doing too much. You’re not superhuman. Where’s it all going wrong And what can you do about it. This articles makes it clear.

Feel fear? “Do it anyway” often backfires. Learn how small steps, empathy, and safety help kids and adults build real courage.

Ever wonder why you aren’t doing what you need or want to do? Curious as to what’s keeping you stuck?

Why You’re Always Running Late (And It’s Not Your Fault) I have many friends who have tried so hard…. Tried to not be late So I know it - you try. You really do. You set alarms, even go so far as to plan the night before, try to leave earlier than you think you need to. And yet, somehow, you’re late yet again. And when you feel you’ve failed yet again - it just shows you it’s not worth all the effort of trying . If this sounds familiar, it’s easy to beat yourself up. But what

How to understand why you are so tired even when you are getting some sleep If you are a mum who feels permanently drained, foggy, snappy, or emotionally flat, it is probably not because you are failing, lazy, or bad at coping. It is because your brain is carrying far too many open loops. An open loop is anything unfinished, undecided, unresolved, or waiting. The message you still need to reply to. The behaviour you are worried about but have not addressed. The conversation y

How to reset. A busy season starts to recede. How do you get back on top?

Reduce your frustration

How to get your child today up with ”whole needs” parenting

Why do Mums Get Triggered? Why are Mums Stressed ? The Real Reason Behind it and 5 Steps to address it: Sarah stood in the kitchen,...

Why do we, as humans, have a need to be in control? Generally we need to have things as we 'expect' in order to feel a perceived sense of...