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We’ve Normalised Punishment So Much We Call It Parenting
Many parents are using punishments.
Often taking things away from the child.
This is a parent attempt at control and is not the best parenting.
Natural consequences are better, however parents often try to created natural consequences and they become punishment administered by the parent. This affects both the child’s learning and the parent child bond. This article is about what you can do instead.
Life Mentoring
2 min read


Are children really the problem? (Hint: it’s not the parents either)
It’s hard in today world for parents and children. Parents have stresses and yet are expected to bring up stress free resilient children. This article covers how we can do this from our own place of overwhelm and pressure.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


Why giving choices to kids is wrong
Why choices can be wrong in parenting and what to do instead.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


You are ‘telling’ your kids they can’t do it….
You’re too busy to do it all yourself, what are you ‘telling’ your child if you do it for them and what are they learning?
Life Mentoring
2 min read


Teens ….listening…..bedtime …help!
Teens don’t seem to listen. And they dont want to go to bed. Constant nagging and often arguments ensue. Turn this around with these tips..
Life Mentoring
4 min read


Why your firm discipline is missing the point
When one child picks on another child.
You’ve tried everything.
Nothing works
What do we do to get on top of it.
This article explains it.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


Your child isn’t handling other kids behaviour
What to do when your child isn’t handling other seemingly misbehaving in tje presence of other kids
Life Mentoring
3 min read
What really makes people difficult
Someone peope have difficult behaviour. Adults and kids alike . What do we do when this happens
Life Mentoring
3 min read
Children not listening
When your child doesn’t listen - small steps and simple tweaks to turn this around and reduce your stress.
Life Mentoring
2 min read
Kids and tidying - why is it so hard
Getting clear on why tidying doesn’t happen
Life Mentoring
1 min read
Independent Play
How to Help Your Child Play Independently (Without Guilt or Pressure) If you’re a mum, chances are you’ve felt it. That tug between...
Life Mentoring
2 min read
Staying calm - yeah right!
How to Stay Calm During Your Child’s Challenging Behaviour You know those moments when your child completely loses it… yelling,...
Life Mentoring
2 min read
Independent Play
Why It’s Hard and How to Help I remember a mum once telling me that she couldn’t even load the dishwasher without her toddler tugging at...
Life Mentoring
2 min read
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