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Kids Needs

When we are helping children to establish and express their needs, these are questions we can ask:


Do you want?:


To get help?


To choose what we do?


To join in?


Time to get used to this?


Some peace and quiet?


To do it together?


The same for everyone?


To make it work?


To be close to me/hug me?


That I 'get' you?


TO say how much you liked it?


To give help?


Everyone to be friends?


To know what I like about what you did?


To now what is going on ?







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