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High energy children - how to cope…
Learn how to handle a boisterous child with gentle parenting strategies that support emotional regulation, connection, and healthy boundaries.
Discover why loud, energetic behaviour is often normal child development and how to respond without yelling, shame, or punishment while helping your child channel their energy in positive ways.
Life Mentoring
4 min read


Consequences not working?
Ever get that sinking feeling when threatening to take away screen time completely backfires?
With strong-willed kids, heavy-handed consequences don't teach cooperation. They just force them to build a wall to protect their autonomy.
Constant pushback is a flag telling us that the compliance plan is a mismatch for their personality.
You can have a peaceful home without crushing their spirit. Read the full article to find out how to swap outdated control tactics for connectio
Life Mentoring
2 min read


The common phrase that accidentally breaks a child’s trust in us
Stop telling your crying child "it's okay." Discover why this common parenting phrase breaks trust and learn how to use a co-regulation framework instead.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


Why Good Parenting Advice Isn’t Working….
You stay calm, set boundaries, and try rewards.
Yet the meltdowns and shouting keep happening.
It’s not you.
There is a fundamental flaw in most parenting advice: it only fixes behavior after it happens.
By then, it’s too late.
To stop the daily battles, we have to look underneath the surface at what your child actually needs.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


We’ve Normalised Punishment So Much We Call It Parenting
Many parents are using punishments.
Often taking things away from the child.
This is a parent attempt at control and is not the best parenting.
Natural consequences are better, however parents often try to created natural consequences and they become punishment administered by the parent. This affects both the child’s learning and the parent child bond. This article is about what you can do instead.
Life Mentoring
2 min read


Are children really the problem? (Hint: it’s not the parents either)
It’s hard in today world for parents and children. Parents have stresses and yet are expected to bring up stress free resilient children. This article covers how we can do this from our own place of overwhelm and pressure.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


Teens ….listening…..bedtime …help!
Teens don’t seem to listen. And they dont want to go to bed. Constant nagging and often arguments ensue. Turn this around with these tips..
Life Mentoring
4 min read


Why your firm discipline is missing the point
When one child picks on another child.
You’ve tried everything.
Nothing works
What do we do to get on top of it.
This article explains it.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


Your child isn’t handling other kids behaviour
What to do when your child isn’t handling other seemingly misbehaving in tje presence of other kids
Life Mentoring
3 min read
Independent Play
How to Help Your Child Play Independently (Without Guilt or Pressure) If you’re a mum, chances are you’ve felt it. That tug between...
Life Mentoring
2 min read
Staying calm - yeah right!
How to Stay Calm During Your Child’s Challenging Behaviour You know those moments when your child completely loses it… yelling,...
Life Mentoring
2 min read
Independent Play
Why It’s Hard and How to Help I remember a mum once telling me that she couldn’t even load the dishwasher without her toddler tugging at...
Life Mentoring
2 min read
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