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Parents Are Being Asked to Do the Impossible.
Parents Are Being Asked to Do the Impossible
Parents are often told that struggling means they are doing something wrong.
But what if the problem isn’t you?
Modern life is fast, distracted, and overwhelming, while parenting requires presence, patience, and connection.
This mismatch creates exhaustion and guilt for many parents.
When we see this clearly, we stop self-blame and start understanding why parenting feels so hard right now.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


We’ve Normalised Punishment So Much We Call It Parenting
Many parents are using punishments.
Often taking things away from the child.
This is a parent attempt at control and is not the best parenting.
Natural consequences are better, however parents often try to created natural consequences and they become punishment administered by the parent. This affects both the child’s learning and the parent child bond. This article is about what you can do instead.
Life Mentoring
2 min read


Are children really the problem? (Hint: it’s not the parents either)
It’s hard in today world for parents and children. Parents have stresses and yet are expected to bring up stress free resilient children. This article covers how we can do this from our own place of overwhelm and pressure.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


Why giving choices to kids is wrong
Why choices can be wrong in parenting and what to do instead.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


You are ‘telling’ your kids they can’t do it….
You’re too busy to do it all yourself, what are you ‘telling’ your child if you do it for them and what are they learning?
Life Mentoring
2 min read


Teens ….listening…..bedtime …help!
Teens don’t seem to listen. And they dont want to go to bed. Constant nagging and often arguments ensue. Turn this around with these tips..
Life Mentoring
4 min read


Why your firm discipline is missing the point
When one child picks on another child.
You’ve tried everything.
Nothing works
What do we do to get on top of it.
This article explains it.
Life Mentoring
3 min read


Your child isn’t handling other kids behaviour
What to do when your child isn’t handling other seemingly misbehaving in tje presence of other kids
Life Mentoring
3 min read
Stopping your reactions
How to stop yourself reacting and over reacting.
Life Mentoring
3 min read
From the outside, you’re handling everything. Inside…..
You’re doing too much.
You’re not superhuman. Where’s it all going wrong
And what can you do about it.
This articles makes it clear.
Life Mentoring
3 min read
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway? Here’s Why It Backfires
Feel fear? “Do it anyway” often backfires. Learn how small steps, empathy, and safety help kids and adults build real courage.
Life Mentoring
3 min read
What really makes people difficult
Someone peope have difficult behaviour. Adults and kids alike . What do we do when this happens
Life Mentoring
3 min read
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